I pretty much hate everything: Devastated

Oh god Torrie...I am so very sorry. I've been a lurker here for a while after falling in love with your photos and seeing you around some of my favorite blogs.

I just want to say I'm sorry.

Posted by: Sarah | February 10, 2006 03:09 PM

Shit. My stomach just sunk. I am so sorry. Sorry doesn't even begin to convey my true feelings.

Posted by: Suzie | February 10, 2006 03:20 PM

i feel absolutely sick for you...i just hate to read this and know it's true. i'm really really sorry this happened.

Posted by: RzDrms | February 10, 2006 03:24 PM

Sending love, Torrie. Oh, honey. My heart breaks for you. I've been there. Write if you want, any time. I'll check in with you. Hugging you.

Posted by: Susie | February 10, 2006 03:35 PM

Oh no.... I'm SO sorry, Torrie and Dr. Hubby. Hugs. Peace.

Posted by: CircusKelli | February 10, 2006 03:38 PM

Oh honey. Oh sweetheart. I'm so, so sorry. I've been there. I'll be thinking about you and check back soon.

Posted by: Homestead | February 10, 2006 03:48 PM

Oh Torrie, honey, I'm so sorry. You're in my thoughts and prayers, dear.

Posted by: LadyBug | February 10, 2006 03:50 PM

Hate to read that. I'm so sorry.

Posted by: jon deal | February 10, 2006 03:52 PM

Oh Torrie. I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts. Lots of love to you both.

Posted by: mrtl | February 10, 2006 03:55 PM

NO NO NO NO NO!

Sorry I sound so childish, but it's the only thing I can hear in my head right now, over and over.

Goodness, I'm so very sorry. Hugs to you and your hubby. You'll be in my thoughts as well.

Posted by: ieatcrayonz | February 10, 2006 04:00 PM

Oh my God. Torrie!

I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. If you need to talk I'm here.

Posted by: Aimee | February 10, 2006 04:08 PM

Oh, honey...

Posted by: Bucky Four-Eyes | February 10, 2006 04:15 PM

Anything that I can do, anything that you need, you let me know.

We love you and are here for you.

And I know you dont want to hear this right now, but you will have the baby you want, this set back, this very sad and tragic thing, sometimes nature needs a second chance to get it right. And it will happen for you, I am sure of that.

Posted by: JessicaRabbit | February 10, 2006 04:22 PM

I'm so incredibly saddened to hear this Torrie.

I'm around all weekend if you need me for anything...and I do mean anything, OK?

Posted by: Sherri | February 10, 2006 04:23 PM

I know sorry doesn't help, but my thoughts & prayers are with you at this time.

Posted by: Nessa | February 10, 2006 04:36 PM

Peace be with you.

Posted by: M&Co. | February 10, 2006 04:49 PM

Oh my god. Torrie...I am so fucking sorry.

Are they sure? Really, really, really sure?

Oh...I wish I lived next door to you. This happened to me two years ago. I'd bring you trashy magazines and chocolates and tulips.

I am so so sorry.

Posted by: suburban misfit | February 10, 2006 04:51 PM

exact same thing 11 years ago. This is going to be a long & emotional weekend for you.

I have no advice, because it was one of the hardest things in the world I went through.

*hug*

Posted by: Random and Odd | February 10, 2006 05:35 PM

Oh, Torrie. I'm so sorry.

Posted by: Bente | February 10, 2006 05:50 PM

Crying.

Posted by: kalki | February 10, 2006 05:50 PM

Oh my god. I am so sorry for your loss. I've been a lurker for a while and had been enjoying hearing about your pregnancy. Sending healing vibes your way.

Posted by: Cheryl | February 10, 2006 05:57 PM

Oh no. That's so horrible. I'm so sorry to hear that.

Posted by: Adrienne | February 10, 2006 06:15 PM

I'm so sorry. That is just so sad. (Knowing that as sad as it makes me, it can't even be a fraction of what you're feeling.)

*hugs*

Posted by: Closet Metro | February 10, 2006 06:49 PM

oh god - I'm so sorry Torrie. I am so sorry. And Jess is absolutely right. Things will be okay down the road. Hold on to your sweet man and love one another. MASSIVE LOVE & HEALING VIBES are being sent your way from all over.

Posted by: Annejelynn | February 10, 2006 07:00 PM

Hugs from a lurker. I'm sorry to read your sad news :(

Posted by: FRECTIS | February 10, 2006 07:37 PM

Another lurker with hugs. Imagine the hundreds of us lurkers hugging you all weekend, and after, and whenever you need it. Hugs to Mr. Torrie too.

Posted by: Dave | February 10, 2006 08:47 PM

Take your time. I'm here if you need me. Anytime.

Posted by: greenie | February 10, 2006 10:01 PM

Torrie, just more of the same. I love you, sweetie. There is nothing to say except i'm sorry. Big hug to you.

Posted by: lawbrat | February 10, 2006 11:17 PM

Heartbroken for you. There are no words to convey the sadness I feel for you. *hugs*

Posted by: Tanya | February 11, 2006 01:36 AM

I to have been a lurker for a while.
My heart aches for you both. Its small compensation but your in my thoughts and prayers thru this hard time.
Hang in there guys.
Much Love and Prayers

Posted by: MIchelle | February 11, 2006 09:55 AM

I am so sorry, Torrie. I'd say something more, but it is hard to type through the tears.

Hugs,

J Bo

Posted by: J_Bo | February 11, 2006 12:52 PM

I'm truly, truly sorry.

Posted by: Chris | February 11, 2006 12:57 PM

I'm so terribly sorry. What awful and sad news. Please take care.

Posted by: Von Krankipantzen | February 11, 2006 02:46 PM

I'm so sorry to hear your news. I've seen your comments on some of the other sites we both visit, and I know how excited you were. Take care.

Posted by: Sharkey | February 11, 2006 03:11 PM

Just stopping in. You're in my heart.

Posted by: Susie | February 11, 2006 07:17 PM

I'm devastated for you as well...
Just shocked.
My thoughts are with you and Dr. T.
So sorry Torrie.
{{hugs}}

Posted by: Diana | February 11, 2006 07:30 PM

Another lurker. So sorry. You are both in my prayers.
*tears* {{hugs}}

Posted by: Tracy Lynn | February 11, 2006 07:45 PM

so sorry. peace.

Posted by: kara | February 11, 2006 07:49 PM

You don't know me, but I feel for you.

I will say some words to the stars tonight to ask that the universe be kind to you.

Posted by: grudge girl | February 11, 2006 08:04 PM

I'm so sorry. *HUGS* Share them with Dr. Torrie, so you can really feel them.

Posted by: Ern | February 11, 2006 09:07 PM

I am so sorry to read about your sad news. Peace.

Posted by: misfithausfrau | February 11, 2006 09:29 PM

Oh Sweetheart. I'm so sorry. I can't remember if we talked about it, but I lost a baby years ago, and it is beyond heartbreaking. I wish I could hug you. If you need to talk, please call.

I love you.

Posted by: Amanda B. | February 11, 2006 09:41 PM

You don't know me but I came over from suburban misfit.

I am so sorry. I just don't have the words to express how badly I ache for your loss.

I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: ann adams | February 12, 2006 02:40 AM

You don't know me, I came via Misfit/Candace, I wouldn't have posted bfr but I've in the meantime learnt that a comment from a perfect stranger can help a bit, so in the hope that it does, I am so sorry, Tori, I truly am. I hope you aren't told anything that increases the pain by lethal well-meaning people, I hope you're spared that. I am so sorry.

Posted by: Lioness | February 12, 2006 04:19 AM

Ohh Tor... that is my deepest fear.

I am truely truely sorry.

xxx

Posted by: JD's Rose | February 12, 2006 05:03 AM

I'm so sorry. You don't even know me but I had to add my voice to this post.

You're in my thoughts - if that counts for anything.

Posted by: Emma | February 12, 2006 09:21 AM

Oh, Torrie, I'm so sorry to hear that. I've been there and it's devastating. We'll all be there with you holding your hand on Monday.

Posted by: Squirl | February 12, 2006 09:55 AM

I've been there too...I lost four babies between my two girls. I won't say I know how you feel, because it's different for everyone. But I am so, so, so sorry.

Posted by: Andrea | February 12, 2006 10:22 AM

Wow, shocking... I'm sorry to hear that.

Wish I could do something to help, but really I think your the only one who can truely help yourself.

I'll pray for you.

Posted by: Samantha | February 12, 2006 03:09 PM

I, too, am here via Suburban Misfit, and don`t know what to say that others haven`t already said, except that I will pray for you.
Hang in there!

Posted by: L. | February 12, 2006 05:23 PM

I know you don't know me, but I just wanted to say that I'm so, so sorry.

Posted by: kris | February 12, 2006 06:23 PM

You know I love you guys.

Posted by: Fuzzball | February 12, 2006 06:28 PM

I am not even sure what to say except that I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you both.

Posted by: southernfriedgirl | February 12, 2006 08:38 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I've been in your shoes so I know there is nothing I can say. Prayers coming your way.

Posted by: Football Widow | February 12, 2006 08:55 PM

I'm here via suburban misfit, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your husband can find peace during this time.

Posted by: Kristen | February 12, 2006 09:43 PM

you poor dear...so sorry..

I had the same thing happen 7 years ago..I will pray for you, thats what you need right now;)

Posted by: just_christina | February 12, 2006 09:57 PM

I'm so very sorry for your loss Torrie...

:(

Posted by: MilkMaid | February 12, 2006 10:07 PM

Here via S. Fried Girl...

I can't imagine being in your shoes. No words are good enough to comfort you now - I hope you find a way to heal physically and emotionally soon. Take care.

Posted by: AL | February 12, 2006 10:44 PM

Ah, fuck.

You know ...

Posted by: Nils | February 12, 2006 11:56 PM

I'm here via SouthernFriedGirl. You don't know me, but I just wanted to stop by & say that I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending gentle hugs to you & your hubby

Posted by: Michele in Michigan | February 13, 2006 12:57 AM

It's Monday and I am thinking of both of you, and wishing you strength.

Posted by: Lioness | February 13, 2006 07:44 AM

Hey Torrie,

I'm thinking of you, sweetie. Take care.

Posted by: mrtl | February 13, 2006 08:19 AM

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: william | February 13, 2006 08:19 AM

oh my god, torrie, how completely devastating. i'm here from surburban misfit and i send prayers and my best thoughts to you.

Posted by: kyra | February 13, 2006 09:15 AM

I'm so sorry, Torrie. ;-( I hadn't been to your blog in a while and popped over to see how you were coping with the blizzard. Stay warm and dry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

Posted by: Gymshoes | February 13, 2006 09:49 AM

(((((HUGS)))))

Posted by: Tammy | February 13, 2006 10:19 AM

thinking of you today and the whole weekend too. but especially today.

Posted by: RzDrms | February 13, 2006 10:33 AM

Another lurker...just wanted to say I'm really sorry. I know how devastating this is. I found this site helpful:

http://www.pregnancy-info.net/QA/questions-Pregnancy_Loss_Miscarriage/

Posted by: G | February 13, 2006 10:47 AM

i am a friend of misfits..i am so sorry for your loss..had a similar experience in 04..delivered my daughter rosiland at 21.5 weeks..you and your husband are in my thoughts..your love for one another will be a healing balm at this time...scream cry throw teflon pans...it helps..

Posted by: megan | February 13, 2006 10:50 AM

I'm so sorry...*hugs

Posted by: Jenie | February 13, 2006 11:54 AM

You have NO idea who I am, I just started reading you thanks to Southernfriedgirl. I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss, though.

Posted by: Julie | February 13, 2006 01:41 PM

I am so sorry.

My sister went through two miscarriages 2 - 3 years ago, and it was devastating. She had the same thing happen, where there was no heartbeat and then they did a D&C. It was the saddest time in my life. But then, a miracle occurred, and on November 30, 2004, my niece was born. And she is the most perfect child. I figure my sister had to go through what she did in order to get Evelyn. Those other little angels who went to heaven made room for their sister Evelyn, and now my sister is blessed. It is something where nothing I can say can console you, but know that there will be a brighter day ahead. That one day, you will have the joy that you have longed for. I know it and feel it in my heart.

We love you Torrie.

Posted by: Snickrsnack Katie | February 13, 2006 01:43 PM

Just wanted to say that I am so sorry for you guys. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I am just so sorry.

Posted by: Pissy Britches | February 13, 2006 02:04 PM

First time here and just want to say that no words that I have to offer will fix it so I leave you with a "that freaking sucks" and that I will be thinking of you and be back to check in...

Posted by: The Kept Woman | February 13, 2006 02:32 PM

I am so sorry to hear your news. I had the same thing happen to me aboiut 2 1/2 years ago. I now have a beautiful baby girl but I still remember that baby I lost. Cry together and don't forget that you are in everyones heart.

Posted by: Holly Cortes | February 13, 2006 03:49 PM

De-lurking to say that I'm so very sorry to hear your sad news. I wish I could say something profound, but there really is nothing....my thoughts are with you.

Posted by: Doreen | February 13, 2006 04:13 PM

Hi there - back to say that my thoughts and prayers are still with you today. I wish there were something I could do.

Posted by: Nessa | February 13, 2006 04:18 PM

I am so sorry for you, Torrie.

*hugs*

I'll be praying for you.

Posted by: Amber | February 13, 2006 04:20 PM

All I want to say is my heart breaks for you-and I would sit in silence and hold your hand if I could. Because there are just not the words to convey the sorrow.

Posted by: deneen | February 13, 2006 06:32 PM

Linked over here from the Southern Fried Girl. I'm SO SORRY, I can't even imagine. You are in my prayers.

Posted by: Amy | February 13, 2006 08:33 PM

I am so sorry Torrie, what terrible news. try to stay strong, sweetheart, we are all here for you.

Posted by: song | February 13, 2006 08:44 PM

Why are so many crappy things happening to so many people recently?!?!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how this feels for you.

Posted by: June Cleaver Diaries | February 13, 2006 10:46 PM

Torrie, I am thinking of you.

Posted by: sheryl | February 13, 2006 11:16 PM

Please accept my sympathies to you and your husband for your terrible loss. I am so very sorry.

Posted by: flea | February 13, 2006 11:22 PM