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Internet I have a VERY important and life changing decision that I need your help with:

Should I stay brunette or go back to blonde?

I was a blonde for 27 years and then I started dyeing my hair brown

It was fun, but to be honest, I don't really feel like myself.
I was always "Torrie with the long blonde hair".

So, here are some examples of the blonde me:
(It's kind of hard to get the full effect on these small pictures, so click on them to view the larger size.

Sara and Torrie

Torrie and Eloise

Torrie with puppy

There are a couple of more examples on Flickr.

And here a few examples of the brunette me:

mookie S.P.3

Self Portrait28

Crooked Lips

Other options:

Blue
Blue S.P.2


Black
Torrie afro


So, please tell me what you think looks better. Try not to make your judgement based on the qaulity of the photos.

Comments

It's YOUR HAIR, cherie. You're the one who's going to be living with it. Do what makes you happy!

Fuck it, go RED.

Actually, I don't have a ton of photographic evidence, but when I first tried to dye my hair brown last year it turned RED.
I would totally do red, but it's really hard to maintain.

How funny! I've always 'known' you as a brunette or redhead. So strange to see you as a blonde.

You're beautiful no matter what you do, so for summer, go blonde. XOXOXO

I have a brunette preference, generally, and think light eyes with dark hair is sexy hot.
But, as said above, it's your hair, and if you go back to blonde and want to go back to dark, you can!

I was born with natural red highlights and light brown hair... so when I started going "white" I started coloring my hair.

I have had a few disasters trying to go red, and it is a pain to maintain. Now I'm alternate auburn and blonde and it works ok.

I say do what makes you happy. You look beautiful in both.

Folks, although I really appreciate the kind words,I need actual advice, not "you look good in both".
HELP ME MAKE A DECISION!

Too funny, I'm having the same issue and asking for similar advice (well not about going "back to blonde" because I never was one).

In any event, I think you look stunning as a brunette. Something about how your bright eyes compliment the dark hair and your flawless skin.

You honestly look gorgeous both ways, but my preference is the brunette pictures.

Fine if red is too much and blonde is too familiar, go for strawberry blonde. Easier to maintain and not hard to go lighter or darker with if you change your mind.

I guess because i know you as a brunette, I can't see you as a blonde.

Your eyes are just so much more powerful with brown hair.

I'm in Aimee's boat. Same deal with my hair - went red for many years - got sick of the maintenance.
So now what I actually have is more of a brown base, with blond highlights mainly around my face. So I get the intensity of the dark hair and it doesn't fade in two days like red does, but I get the nice effects from well-placed foils concentrated on the front.

I wouldn't have even known that was you with the blonde hair! I love dark hair on you - makes your eyes *Pop!* So maybe do a partial foil, with not light blonde, but lighter than the rest of it.
You dig?

diana
who's been every color under the rainbow, including purple

Ohhh - a quick question - is your Natural hair blonde then??

Also - I like the style/length of your 'hair' in the blue wig. I think that fits your face shape really well. Could be the bangs - they look good on you - but I think the length also works to your advantage.

You look better as a brunette.
There, I've said it. ;-)

Blondes have more fun.

i agree with the strawberry blonde. That would be beautiful on you.

Diana, yes- I'm naturally dark blonde.

well then, in that case - getting your hair back to your lighter Natural state - that would be a lot of chemical treatments... I still vote for adding some warmth around your face to start, and see how you like that around your face, and then you can keep adding more each time until you get as much lightness/blonde that you like.
Hey - it's just hair. It grows, and it's fixable...
but it also Does affect how you feel about yourself on a day to day basis. Can I say Bad Hair Day??
And with all you've been thru lately, if you've got an itch to change it, I think you totally should. You can always come back to dark if you change your mind.

OK, initially I was like "Oh, blonde fo sho" but the darker hair makes your blue eyes like super duper BLUE.

I still like the blonde though. Go for blonde - lighten up for summer.

You do look great but I will say blonde it looks the best

I really think you look great with brunette hair. It really brings out your eyes. I hope you decide to keep it!

I think if you don't feel like yourself as a brunette, then you've answered your own question. :)

Blond.

In some parts of Europe, "flipping a coin" is known as "spinning a penny". So:

"When you are called on to make up your mind
And are hampered by not having any
The Best way to solve the dilemma, you'll find
Is simply by spinning a penny.

No, not so the coin will decide the affair
As you're passively standing there moping;
But the moment the penny is up in the air
You'll realize what you are hoping.

I maintain that you would not have asked this question if you felt comfortable as a brunette. I think you want to go back to being blonde. And I thin if you left it up to a coin, flipped it in the air, you would know that right away.

Fuck it. Go back. If it doesn't feel good, it's not like they close the Hair Products counter.

I vote brunette because it's extremely striking on you. I also second the statement that it really accentuates your eye color.

I also vote brunette because holy CRAP, the amount of shit you'd have to put on your head to get that dark dye out? Oh, it would not be pretty.

I vote for brunette.

Brunette afro.

Fight the power, man.

"It was fun, but to be honest, I don't really feel like myself"

You decided already.

Brunette.

I love the reddish brunette, but you know what, you gotta live with it :)

You look beautiful both ways- much more intense as a brunette, but I think I am going to vote for blond (which is soooo unlike me, power to the brunette ladies!).

It's summer and change is good!

Is it a coincidence that you smile in the blonde photos and don't smile in the brunette ones?

I like brunette

I didn't read through the other comments, so sorry if I'm repeating.

I LOVE the brunette because your eyes, they just GLOW with the dark hair.

Plus, I'm a brunette. So, you know, be like me!

I think you look best when you have a smile on, regardless of the hair color.

Brunette, no question...reflects your intellegence.

Brunette, no question...reflects your high intellegence.

You look much friendlier as a blonde.

I'm not sure if that's a good thing.

definitely blonde. more fun.

Blonde. You look softer, happier, and blonde is fun for summer.

But...if you're thinking of moving to red, don't go too blonde or when you switch to red it could go pink. (I had it happen, and while it was edgy, it wasn't my fav.).

Personally I'm a fan of chunks. Chunky highlights/lowlights. It's the best of both worlds. You can look really light one day and change the part and wala you have brown around your face.

I say brunette. Because there are too many fake blondes in the world. Blondeness is really devalued to the point of mundanity now. Being an undercover blonde is like saying "f-you" to the whole one dimensional celebrity tv anchor/rockstar/pornactress thing.
But that's just my opinion.

so it's 14 brunette and 12 blond!
Go brunettes!

I really like the blonde. Makes you look "softer?" Just my opinion of course, but I think the lighter hair color is more youthful. Could this be because 98% of my family has been born a blonde and ended-up a brunette by 20? Hmmmm.........lol

Strange, but you look unhappy in the brunette photos. So, I'm going with Blonde. Although the dark afro is incredibly hip!

i say RED! not red-red, but very light auburn. with highlights.

heh. ;)

You're a beautiful brunette, but change can be good for the soul. Go back to your roots.

Smooches!

the blonde compliments you more in my opinion...softer on you. and im a natural blonde gone brunette/red for years lol.

I think the blond is nice. It reminds me of claire danes. I like the cut and style of your first brunette photo.

you look better blonde

I personally love the Brunette haircolor on you...It really brings out your beautiful, light blue eyes...So gorgeous. Nothing more gorgeous than a blue-eyed Brunette, baby...Stay Brunette...It looks hot..

Absolutely brunette, makes your blue eyes stand out beautifully, contrast is much bolder. Looks hot! I have been a blonde all my dam life, about to go brunette! I will be glad I did after seeing your shots.

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